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Reasons Why People Cheat On Each Other

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Why Do People Cheat On Each Other?

 Are you wondering why some persons cheat on their lovers?

If you are, there are underlying reasons why they cheat on them. If you have experienced being cheated on, don’t immediately react. There are reasons why your loved one cheated on you. Or, if you are the one who is cheating with somebody, then you should be aware of the possible outcomes, especially if you are married.

1. She or he is getting bored with your relationship. The primary reason of infidelity is, maybe, the person is getting bored with his or her partner. This is a common cause why married couples get divorced, because they don’t make time for each other. They are always busy working and caring for their kids, and when they get home, they don’t have time to make love or even show their love in simple ways.

This is the time why they cheat on their loved ones. So, if you are experiencing this situation right now, it is not too late. You may change it as soon as possible. Be sweet, caring, and most of all, generous of your time to your partner. Second, sex matters as well. If you are a woman, you may want to caress your husband sometimes at night.

2. Arguments and physical violence in a relationship. Arguments sometimes lead to big fights, including physical violence. If this happens every time in a relationship, there is a chance that a person may look for someone who is more deserving. If this is happening in your relationship right now, talk with him or her about it calmly, and maybe you may solve the problem. Everything can be solved through reducing each other’s pride.

3. Childhood experience. What I mean about this is that your partner might have experienced a family pressure at home. He or she might have witnessed his or her parents’ infidelity. Sometimes, children can be affected by this issue as they grow up, especially their viewpoints in married life. This is one of the reasons why some persons cheat on their partners. If your partner keeps cheating on you, you may consider looking back his or her childhood, because he or she might have experienced bad memories.

4. Unfaithful men love to explore new “things”. Some men love to explore and experiment. What I mean about this is that men are easily get tempted by some attractive women. We all know that men love being flirted with, and they easily get aroused. When this happens, they may forget that they are currently committed. This doesn’t refer to all men, but this is, in fact, their natural instincts. Some men don’t know how to control themselves from temptation. This is one of the reasons why men cheat. If this describes you, then divorce is coming your way.

5. The cheater doesn’t really love his or her partner. A person who cheats may be dissatisfied with his or her relationship. He or she is feeling empty and is probably the reason why he or she is cheating. In this case, the cheater doesn’t really love his or her partner, because if he or she does, then why would he/she cheat on his or her partner? Remember that true love also means satisfaction.

There are other reasons why men and women cheat and no doubt that the internet has helped in this respect. There is a plethora of adult dating sites, ranging from foot fetish dating, bondage, casual dating, NSA dating, marital affairs. A good example is this site in the UK for men and women looking for casual sexual relationships. Temptation is everywhere!

There are many other reasons why people cheat on their partners and I found this interesting article, which sheds more light on this phenomenon.

Top 10 Signs Of Infidelity

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The Top 10 Signs of Infidelity

Infidelity experts believe that while cheating can cause pain, depression and eventual separation, persons offended should be able steer clear of such trouble by paying attention to mild clues and acting appropriately. Interestingly, experience doesn’t make one better at cheating!

There are quite a few signs of infidelity to look for in a cheating partner. Some will be difficult to see and others might require great indulgence. Others might never occur to you at all.

Here are the top 10 signs of infidelity. 

1. Lots of excuses- If he/she is seeing someone on the side, the two of you will have less time for each other. It’s natural that available time will be shared between you and the new catch. But they always have an excuse for every deed or misdeed.

2. Coming home late from work- when your spouse suddenly finds reasons to stay out late into the night, all is not well. Within a short time, a whole night out sounds just okay?! 

3. Suspicious phone behavior- This one is simple, frequent and easy to tell. The phone rings and he/she walks a few yards away from you before picking or they step out of the door to answer to a call. They also become more addicted to the phone.

4. Spending less on you- if income remains constant; spending less on you only means he is spending the balance somewhere.

5. Change in sex life- no one has all the energy to engage in continuous sex. Moreover, sexual attraction has so much to do with chemistry. If he/she appears less interested in sexual activity with you, be sure they are getting all the pleasure elsewhere.

6. Change in personal grooming- while tastes change and people want to keep up with fashion, a drastic change in grooming should worry you. People change to environments too and research shows that new partners will do everything to impress each other. 

7. Internet behavior- the internet has taken over as the mother of all evils. Everything goes on there from simple hookups to dates and so forth. If his computer time suddenly increases, something is going on. Either it’s a thriving business or he found some new love.

8. New email addresses- take note if your partner finds reason to open a new e-mail account especially if they seem to be trying hard to hide it from you.

9. Initiates petty arguments, complaints and is ready to pick up fights- if they are ready to lodge unending arguments over nothing and even dare you to a fight, trouble looms.

10. Olfactory clues- from lipstick on the shirt to lingering scents of strange colognes, this is evidence you can’t ignore. Look out for tobacco scents too especially if they don’t smoke.

There are a thousand other infidelity symptoms out there, like changing style of dress, wearing a new aftershave or perfume (in the case of women), spending time on the internet, surfing adult porn sites or adult dating sites, looking for casual relationships, nsa dating, or sex meets. Some spouses will leave the house during arguments, sometimes it will be anonymous calls and another tangible clue is increased proximity to a new friend. 

You may then have to make a decision to confront the situation. You don’t have to be sorry for your spouse, why should you when they started the mess? Instead seek advice from counselors to get professional guidance on the best way forward.

The Seven Kinds of Affairs – What Are They?

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Knowing The Seven Kinds of Affairs

Have you noticed how a number of marriages fall apart because of extra-marital affairs? Have you seen a lot of couples break up due to unfaithfulness? The issue of having affairs has become phenomenal. It is no longer unusual these days. As a matter of fact, more than half of the total married couples have gone through the issue of extra-marital affairs.

Different Kinds of Affairs

Every affair outside marriage may be considered as sinful. However, while some might say there is only one kind of affair – and that is the sinful affair – in general, there are seven (7) specific kinds of affairs all in all. The kinds of affairs listed below are based upon the reason as to why a spouse has failed to be loyal and faithful to his/her partner.

 1.) The Lust Affair

We cannot deny that there are people who are just lustful in nature. Some people just find it hard to resist the temptation around them. They always have sexual desire for different people. Just because they are lustful does not already mean that they do not love their partner. Most of the time, the beat of their heart is different from the heat of their body.

 2.) The Denial Affair

This kind of affair is quite common, but not as common as the others. This is the type of affair wherein one or two of the people involved (the married person and the third party) are in denial about their affair. This means that they do not see their relationship as an affair. One good example of this is a younger sister and a married brother who tease each other erotically. They might not consider this as an affair due to the fact that they are “siblings.”

 3.) The Soulmates Affair

This kind of affair is probably among the most common kinds of affair. In this affair, the spouse who is guilty of adultery has found a lot of similarities with his/her extra-marital love interest. This may be due to the fact that the two have the same sexual interests, spiritual interests, intellectual interests and the likes.

 4.) The “Personal Issues” Affair

Most often than not, this kind of affair is just temporary. It just pops out of nowhere. This usually happens when a person remembers something so tragic. This despair leads him/her to something he/she must not do – having sexual intercourse with someone whom he/she is not married to.

 5.) The Mid-Life Affair

Couples do not hit milestone stages (such as menopause) at the same time. This means that someone might no longer be active sexually while the other one is still left with the burning desire to engage in sexual activities. In the end, the one who is not yet on his/her milestone stage looks for someone whom he/she can have some good time with.

 6.) The Revenge Affair

This affair is usually the result of extreme hatred and anger toward your partner. Probably, the other spouse has made something that made his/her partner unhappy and mad. As a way to get even, his/her partner decided to cheat on him/her.

 7.) The Unnoticed Partner Affair

This affair usually blooms when one of the couple is too busy with his/her other activities such as studies, career, home chores and more. He/she is too busy to mind and to give time to his/her partner. As a result, his/her partner looks for someone who can give him/her the time and attention he/she wanted from his/her spouse.

If you do not want to suffer from a failed marriage, you better remember all these kinds of affair. Avoid all the causes of affairs if you can. This is the only way you can keep your marriage long-lasting. However, many people will attest to the positive aspects of having an affair and that it has somehow made them have a reality check about their existing married relationship.